Silk sheets, candlelight, skimpy nightie. These are the things people usually talk about as turn-ons.

But the fact is that what ~gets you going~ can totally differ from person to person. And you don’t really hear too much about the more off-the-beaten-path stuff that puts people in the mood.

So, we asked the BuzzFeed Community to share what uncommon and surprising things turn them on. Here’s the super specific stuff they had to say (and to be clear, we’re talking about stuff being done by/between consenting adults):

Note: Submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity.